Keys for a long-lasting Relationship

Long lasting relationship requires some tiresome efforts. You start a relationship with a bang. In the beginning it always seems like some fairy tale love story, where everything is so perfect and beautiful. But no matter how beautiful relationship you both share you always stay doubtful and insecure when asked about how long it will going to stay this way! Since nobody can predict the future especially when it’s about relationships but we can still try at our level to make sure it doesn’t fade away that easily. There are some very simple keys we all should follow that imply to almost all of us to keep a long-lasting relationship.

Be confident.

You have to be confident about yourself, about your looks your ideas, about anything you do in life. That is because you can make your partner admire you and look up to you only when you make him realize that you have no complains with yourself. It will make him proud of you and he/she will feel more secure with you.

Don’t be very much insecure.

If you don’t want your partner to get irritated with you, and don’t want him to feel suffocated then you should stop being too much insecure about him. Showing possessiveness is okay sometimes but taking it too much seriously and too much reactions over such issues can make your partner search for reasons to ignore you. It might be possible you end up having a serious fight.

Don’t interfere in your partner’s life very much.

That is the worst thing you possibly end up doing. Interfering in your partner’s life too much. Or be too much suspicious about him talking to other girls etc. a long-lasting relationship can only be built with a building trust in it. Otherwise it has no existence. So you should start trusting him only then you will be able to keep him for longer term. 

Don’t take your partner for granted.

Just because your partner loves you blindly he is there for you anytime you need him, and you feel he can do anything for you. Doesn’t mean you will start taking him for granted. You should never make that mistake. Because a long-lasting relationship needs respect in it. You have to keep reminding yourself that the person you are in relationship with has a worth, that’s why he is your partner. Even you won’t like to date a person who has no self-respect. So don’t ever put him in such a situation where he will have to decide between you or his dignity.

Don’t act too cheesy.

Don’t ever act way too cheesy and so much loving with your partner. Since your partner might be having different nature, he might not be feeling like fairy tale love story the way you are feeling. Or he might be very practical and realistic in life. Your cheesy behavior can make him turn off. When it’s about relationship you are always supposed to act flexible and witty enough to understand your partner’s needs and wants, and then should act accordingly. Only then you can hope for a long-lasting relationship.

Always show your presence to him whenever he is in trouble.

You might forget his birthday or some other reason of his celebration. But never ever be absent when he is going through a trouble. Because that’s where your real role needs to be played. Where you are supposed to comfort him and make him feel that there is someone with him even at the time of trouble.

Don’t just make it physically compatible but make it emotionally compatible too.

It should not be this way that you both are just sharing a relationship where he is just physically attached to you. Make him open-up, and be the one for him, to whom he becomes emotionally attached too. Read: 12 Warning Signs That She Is Just Not Into You For a long-lasting relationship don’t be so rigid and same throughout. You should learn to change and grow according to the demands of circumstances in your life. So that you both keep sharing a comfortable relationship no matter what!